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How to Make the Ask of a Gift in a Will Less Scary

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Sure, asking for money is hard. But asking for an estate gift? As Anne Melvin puts it, “For many of us, asking for a bequest is akin to asking, ‘So when are you going to die and what are you going to leave us when you do?’ [1] The right ask can be powerful. They increase interest in making a lasting impact.

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How to build deeper connections with your donors using surveys

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Socratic fundraising asks questions. It’s still possible to ask questions. 1] First, the fundraiser must have a valid reason to ask questions. 1] First, the fundraiser must have a valid reason to ask questions. Justify asking questions Questions can work. So, we need to justify asking the questions.

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How Restricted Gifts Can Actually Be a GOOD Thing — And Why You Should Embrace Them

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They make the donor’s character more important. Making the donor’s character more important works. It makes the story more compelling to the donor. If the gift doesn’t change anything, why make it? But here is where things got weird. Another experiment found the same thing. 3] Why did this work?

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Dr. James explains why the feeling “People like me make gifts like this” is so powerful in major gifts fundraising

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3] In a reciprocal, sharing community, giving makes sense. 3] In a reciprocal, sharing community, giving makes sense. In a non-sharing or non-reciprocal community, giving does not make sense. The smarter play is this: Follow the examples of others in your community. This means two things.

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Why answering “no” to these four questions guarantees failure in your fundraising efforts

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Are we asking them? 3] We don’t need encouragement to do the fun parts. Each has capacity to make a $10,000 gift. Each has a 75% chance of making that gift. Each has capacity to make a $1 million gift. Each has a 3% chance of making that gift. Suppose you make one gift proposal per week.

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How to be an authentic guiding sage for your donors

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The fundraiser makes the call to adventure. 3] She knows when donor circumstances make each option relevant.[4] In that universal story, the guiding sage plays a powerful archetypal role. This role can direct the fundraiser’s work. She challenges the donor to heroism. She helps along each step of the journey. This might mean.

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How to develop a ‘character’ in your fundraising stories in 3 steps — according to Dr. Russell James

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The donor must see things from the character’s perspective. 1] We can see things from their perspective. 3] In other words, donors must identify (perspective + empathy) with the character. But what we see must also make us feel. How do we make this happen? Make it specific. Make it simple. This means.