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Dr. James explains why identifying with others is so powerful in a donor’s hero story

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Effective fundraising starts with identity. Compelling fundraising story connects the donation story with the donor’s story. In fundraising, identifying with others is powerful. Natural origins of giving: I am like them Altruism means I give away something valuable to help another. It helps you, but it costs me.

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The importance of expressing impact and gratitude in fundraising

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The “one big thing” in fundraising is this: Advance the donor’s hero story. Biologists model reciprocal altruism with a game.[1] But it helps the other player more than it costs. In the game, expressing desire for a social, helpful-reciprocity relationship is meaningful. It starts by connecting with identity.

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Shared Leadership’s Role in Piloting the Plane

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It’s the crew that knows who is on board, what baggage they brought, their feelings about flying, and how to help people cope with turbulence.  When the Captain comes on the PA system to inform everyone about the flight plan, they often sound like ‘the adults’ in the Peanuts specials. What would this committee tell me? All of them.

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Dr. James explains what happens when fundraising metrics go bad

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Want to start a fight in a fundraising comment section? 1] Another writes, “Fundraisers need to focus MORE on creating memories and moments with their donors … and LESS about hitting those wacky metrics or year-end goals.”[2]. Yes, they’re all talking about fundraising. But fundraising isn’t one thing. Fightin’ words.

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What Dr. James means when he recommends you harness the power of storytelling in major gifts fundraising

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The “one big thing” in fundraising is always the same: Advance the donor’s hero story. The compelling fundraising challenge will make each link. Or why not just collect a list of fundraising tips and tricks? What’s the difference between good and bad fundraising? Good fundraising brings in big money. Story works.

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How transactional donor relationships kill generosity

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In a scale, it might look like this: Helpful reciprocity Loved one (lover, spouse, close family) Friend Teammate Colleague Neighbor Community member Transactional reciprocity Customer Merchant Stranger Harmful reciprocity Competitor Enemy Relationship signals are reciprocity signals. This is nothing new in fundraising advice.

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Dr. James explains the power of giving: why leading with a gift always wins

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1] This primal-giving game models reciprocal altruism.[2] 5] To play the game yourself, go to [link] Lead with a gift: Back to relationships So, how does game theory apply to real-world fundraising? A good gift signals a “helpful reciprocity” relationship. Lead with a gift: A simple fundraising example Games and theory are fine.