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Dr. James explains why identifying with others is so powerful in a donor’s hero story

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Natural origins of giving: I am like them Altruism means I give away something valuable to help another. Most altruism in animals matches this model. How could natural selection lead to altruism? It helps you, but it costs me. Altruism is still costly. This opens the possibility for reciprocal altruism.

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Dr. James explains how to harness friendship reciprocity to unlock heroic donations

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The simple game has an unbreakable law: Giving must be seen by partners who are able and willing to reciprocate. In the extreme game, the law still applies. Only friendship reciprocity can help. A simple example One fundraiser for a law school shared this story. “I This helps to advance the donor’s hero story.

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Dr. James explains why sustainable giving starts by answering, “Do we have a shared future?”

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The game has an unbreakable law. Without this, reciprocal altruism fails. In that case, giving would break the first law. Again, giving would break the first law. Giving would break the first law. Without this shared future, reciprocal helping disappears. Two unrelated players both face these same payoffs.

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The importance of expressing impact and gratitude in fundraising

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Biologists model reciprocal altruism with a game.[1] But it helps the other player more than it costs. Let’s go back to the first law. In the primal game, giving has an unbreakable law: Giving must be seen by partners who are able and willing to reciprocate. Do these signal a social, helpful-reciprocity relationship?

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Dr. James explains the power of giving: why leading with a gift always wins

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1] This primal-giving game models reciprocal altruism.[2] A good gift signals a “helpful reciprocity” relationship. If there was a seminar at the Law School, we would invite them to that. This process repeatedly signals a helpful reciprocity social relationship. The previous social signals help build relationship.

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3 Big Reasons Why An ‘Ask’ Is Mostly About Your Donor’s Hero Story (Not Your Organization’s)

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For a human rights charity, it increased donations to mention that it “works in countries that have recently passed laws that harshly restrict nonprofit organizations.”[9]. But increasing anger didn’t work if the gift just generally helped people. Does this mean that deadlines help? Explorations in political psychology.

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Dr. James explains why the feeling “People like me make gifts like this” is so powerful in major gifts fundraising

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Some gifts may help reputation, while others won’t. This helps link the challenge to a victory. The gift helps my group. And it helps my standing within the group. Both of these help link the victory to an enhanced identity. Showing that “people like me make gifts like this” helps. It’s complicated.